Friday, March 23, 2018

A few thoughts on MOVING.

They say a picture's worth a thousand word,  so I just composed a 23,000 word digest of a at leas a couple of years worth of Parker action. It's not complete, and never will be, but it's a big bite sized addition. I'm still about 18 months behind on the blog posts so it will have to be abbreviated to be sure. We have moved way too much for what it's worth.. The best thing about moving is meeting so many more good, GOOD people. It's not easy, learning all new names and families and where to find what, and whose who, new friends, doctors, schools, and so on. But people are good everywhere we go. It makes it hard to move too, since we just get to know people and start to feel like a part of the neighborhood, ward, and community then we leave. We miss friends, family and acquaintances where ever we have lived. We are back in our "home" territory. Back ion familiar ground, but still it's new neighbors, ward, and friends too. Closer to a lot of our family, further from some. Ive decided there is no perfect place to live, no matter where we call home, there are people and things we miss about somewhere else we've lived. The worst part of moving in my experience and opinion is packing and the physical MOVING job..work, grind! and unpacking and finding a home for our treasures we haul back and forth or just forth.. Simplicity is so illusive, for me anyway. I want to be simple, but I am sentimental, so it's not practical really, now is it? There's good and not as good in everything.
It's nice though to be near more family, and we've been fortunate to host a bunch of family old and new hear in our current home in St George. We love company and visiting with friends and family near and far and welcome any visitors who would drop by.  This move was very timely as we were close by to spend more time with and help out also with Kelly's mother.  failure in the end. She passed away in early December.  It was good to be around for her and family too.
Still, as I have more and more birthdays, I'm less inclined to wanting to move. I love adventure,  love having new friends -along with the long timer and more recently collected friends, but moving is moving and packing is for the professionals. Even then, there are always casualties of the move. So I would advise staying put for awhile. Until we sink our roots in deep with a mortgage nothing is permanent so I'll just cross my fingers, and hope to die before I have to pack it all up again. 😬😬😬
The view off our deck, so beautiful

What we get wake up to every morning. 

Especially wonderful when it rains in the desert, yes? 
Surprise, surprise.. miracles do happen.
Richard Merrill and Connie (mom) Stewart plan a wedding
Mom has been single for over 30 years, unsuspecting of
Richards courting, he had taken her on a date or two before
he had to explain that they were dates not just, come along I have an extra ticket
LOL

We hiked with Dustin and family just before our move to Donut Falls
I recommend it, if you're near SLC. UT 

So grateful for the pool! 

Chase worked a stint in Construction called himself a worker bee

Aiden so happy standing and cruising along the furniture.

Meagan and her family moved from West Jordan to Stansbury Park (about 40 min. North)

Chase and Bryce spent the summers in the Eastern US one year and Hawaii the next,
working installing alarms, but taking time to see and enjoy adventures of the areas. 

We were now in the Mesa Temple District, LOVE this Temple!

Grandma Connie, getting nails done, just after Bridal get together
the end of June, Richard came a courting and by August Wedding plans were underway.
It all came together so fast that a civil wedding were in order and the temple sealing would follow in 1 year

It's official, the happy couple Richard & Connie, (Mom, Grandma)Merrill
September 9, 2016

Merrill Siblings: Lto R, Belinda, Lanette, Jerry, David, Alan, Deloy, Rick Nadine Casaandra
Richard & Connie

Parker Family All gathered in St George 

Stewart Side of the Merrill/Stewart Union There was a Big Group picture taken, (I don't know where it is)

 Just prior to our Big Move to Mesa, Nephew Parker married Christee in Bountiful
 And, Dustin's Family grew with the addition of Grand-daughter Haven here with her adoring siblings
 Also, worth mentioning is the Parker family had relocated from Colorado to Midvale, Utah while we were in Draper..  In June, they moved South to Lehi. and Meag's family moved in March to Stansbury Park up by Tooele and the South shore of the Great Salt Lake. Beautiful but kind of in the North 40... farther away from convenient. The Kids love their schools and so that's huge!

 Uncle Blake with Haven

 Baby Haven, Asher and Grandma 
Uncle Keanan's turn to enjoy the cute little girl. Good Hair day, eh? 

Thursday, March 22, 2018

On the Move to Arizona this time July, 2016

 Moving to Az was extra special since we were finally near our Lemon/Wingate family, so excited!
 Our new North East Mesa Home, in Thunder Mountain Ward, quiet neighborhood near shopping, and between two Temples, Ikea within 30 minutes, schools, hiking, and the final deal maker amenity
                                                                     A POOL!!!